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yoonj's avatar

I just had to say that I 'consumed' the exact same pair of shoes. Precisely last week.That's all !

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Kim's avatar

had to jump on re: “marriage”. My husband and I met when we were 17... we are now 35 and been together longer than we’ve been with out the other. Marriage was something we were always meh to. What was the point?.. we are married in our eyes, it’s basically a legal document blah blah etc. But, for us it came down to the fact that legal document determines a lot (at least in Canada). The right to make decisions for the other, the right to see the other in a hospital (if something should happen), the right to be each other’s “other” to the rest of the world. Without that document, we would not have the “right” to be as we are... we still think it’s stupid, but so is much of the realities of our current world. And then, the family element. It still means a lot to family, and to be honest it does change things. It’s like the smallest, most subtle, inexplainable difference that is equally huge and “everything”... I think something about “everyone” acknowledging and recognizing you are “one”, brings another level to how “one” you are.. I dunno. Perhaps I should have coffee and wake up before sending this lol, but I feel as someone who never got or cared about getting married, I do think since getting married it has its own beautiful weight and purpose, and you don’t lose anything, but gain so much more... and if nothing else, the legal stuff is important.

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