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Allyssa Capri's avatar

I'd suggest that the "sex" you are referring to sounds strikingly similar to Audre Lorde's "erotic" — have you read that essay?

"The erotic is not a question only of what we do; it is a question of how acutely and fully we can feel in the doing."

Haley Nahman's avatar

I haven't but I will now!!

Wendy T's avatar

Taylor Swift the Celebrity is an example of sexlessness in modern culture IMO - the way she always wears corsets and miniskirts in the most nothingburger way possible and how everyone gave her shit when she was hooking up with Matty Healy

apb's avatar

Maybe slightly off topic, but I feel like Arielle Isack's recent critique of the Brutalist relies on sex as a meaningful critical lens https://thepointmag.com/criticism/outwitting-history/ ... thought you might find that interesting too

Haley Nahman's avatar

Thank you, will read!!

Celeste's avatar

Sexless and humourless! Definitely forgot how to flirt